OK, as I said the wedding was awesome. I had kind of hoped that after the wedding things would be all relaxed, but really I knew that showing around as much as 20 people at a time would be a bit of a challenge. It was all relaxing in a sense though, as I was so psyched that the wedding went well and that they could all come, and it really was a great pleasure to show a bunch of my family and some friends around my new home and teach them all about this new place. It was interesting because I guess I still think of myself as being quite a foreigner here, but I forgot how much more Japanese I’ve become in my habits, from the way I act in social settings, to automatically taking off my shoes and pointing them back out, to the food I eat, and seeing all my family and friends who were here for the first time reminded me of that.
We pounded through all kinds of activities and sight-seeing at an unbelievable rate – here’s just a list of the major highlights:
On the Friday before my wedding I took 16 people on the 1.5hr one-way commute to Kyo-tanabe to help me teach my class. It was really a huge success – it seemed like the students and my family had a great time. I love it when you can make decisions that minimize the amount of work you do and maximize the good effects, like focusing the class around my family just chatting and doing activities with the students.


Afterwards, we missioned into Osaka to catch the last of the late-blooming cherry blossoms at the mint. I love some of these signs we saw throughout our train trips.

Throughout the following week, we saw the Kiyomizu, Kinkakuji, Ryoanji and Sanjuusengendo temples,

(Granny and Aunt Ruth getting a jinrikisha ride up to Kiyomizu temple)
went to the Miyako odori geisha show in Gion, complete with ridiculously false advertised “tea ceremony” where they herd 80 people into a room, and feed them through an assembly line of maccha and snacks, climbed Mt. Daimonji, had three lunches with various English clubs, ate kaiten zushi (conveyor belt sushi – the bullet train that brings out the special orders was a real hit with everyone we took), went on a day trip to Hiroshima/Miyajima,

where we lost a taxi full of septua/octogenarians and me and my Uncle David had to make a frantic 4-minute sprint through the train station to just BARELY catch the train they had slipped on and avoid an unplanned all-nighter in Hiroshima; and went to public baths.
We also went on a two-day trip to Yokohama/Tokyo, where we woke up at 4am to go to the fish market to eat fresh sushi,


Me and Dad trying to catch up on lost sleep
went to a maid café where Feet, Ollie challenged french-maid outfit-clad hostesses to beer-drinking, curry-eating and skanky juice-drinking challenges, respectively, and won two out of three.

And did some other Tokyo sight-seeing like going to this drum museum in Asakusa


Sawa leading the way
With everyone thoroughly exhausted, I saw most of my remaining family off to the airport on Sunday, but Ollie, Feet and I still had business to attend to since we were on our last night in Tokyo: partying all-night in Tokyo. We had initially planned to go to Roppongi, but changed our mind when we realized that we’d just party with foreigners in Roppongi, but could party with Japanese in Shibuya.
After a brief check-in on my remaining relatives at Sawa’s grandparents apartment, I met back up with them at the Hachiko statue in Shibuya. (My parents and Aunt Ruth and Harry Coyle somehow managed to turn the heater on super-hot, get an error message on the washer, not work the stove or microwave and accidentally fill a bath while I was gone. To be fair, I probably would’ve done the same, and could only fix about half of the problems) By that time they’d already picked up these two girls Chika and Miyo at some party they got corralled into going to because they were foreigners (plus some random other girl in this photo).

We went off and played pool with them for a while and almost managed to string out the game long enough for them to miss the last train, but we were just too awesome and they just made their train. Unsure of what to do next and surpised by the suddenly strangely quiet streets, we cracked open some One Cup sake back at the Hachiko statue.

Bad idea. It really didn’t go at all well with the beer we’d had at the pool hall.
However, it was good because there were two random Japanese people at the statue, and after we got them to take our picture and then had a drink with them, they took us to meet their crew and we all went to some random izakaya, where we proceeded to have an epic night. Feet seemed to manage to get through the night without problems, but between the alcohol and exhaustion and lack of sleep, I spent most of the evening asleep or almost asleep, and the sake didn’t agree with Ollie very well and he was hurting by the end of the night, and for that matter the next morning, when we got up after an hour and a half of sleep to catch a bullet train back to Kyoto, where I saw off my Dad. (My mum stayed in Tokyo and Ruth and Harry are spending one more week on their own in Kyoto).
With my family all safely back in their various places or left to their own devices, I turned my attention to hanging out with Feet and Ollie for their last two days. After a much-needed recovery sleep, we went to USJ on Tuesday with the free tickets they won at the wedding after-party.

The next day, we had some nice sleep and lunch at Bimota, and then me and Feet went to get an old-school style wet shave, which he was extremely excited about.


With all the hecticness leading up to the wedding and beyond, it almost felt like I fast-forwarded through spring, and now on Tuesday and Wednesday two scorching days made it feel like it was already summer. On Wednesday we borrowed some bikes and biked up the Kamogawa river to this spot Rambo told me about. We were going to jump off the dam, but got a little sketched out and instead just swam and climbed around.

Refreshed, we continued on North, getting steeper and steeper, all the way to the Kurama Onsen that Andy Xie, a Doshisha Fellow from a couple of years back, told me about. It was really nice to finish the long uphill bike ride and get to this steaming natural hot spring and watch the sun go down over the hills from within.

After a much easier downhill ride back, we went to grab ramen at Takumi (down Imadegawa a block or two past Demachiyanagi Station) with Ranbo and Mariko for our last night, then they packed and grabbed a few hours of sleep before we woke up at 6am this morning to get them to the airport. I don’t think I’ve ever seen so much meat in a bowl meant for one person before.


Haha, now, though, I had about 4 or 5 hours to just relax and catch up on some stuff, and then I hopped on a bullet train to Yokohama. My Uncle David had arrived one day later than the rest because of a last-minute health scare and he had got an extra-long JR rail pass anyway, so his pass was still good till today, so I used it to get a free ride back to Yokohama, where I needed to come for an old friend’s wedding after-party and to meet my mum and brother again, as well as to see Sawa and her family and meet some of her other relatives I still haven’t met.
I’m pretty exhausted from all the planning and marrying and guiding and organizing and traveling and partying, but it’s a wonderful, happy, fulfilling kind of exhaustion and it was an incredible amount of fun and happiness to have all these people I love come share in our joyful day and have a great time here.
By the way, before the wedding, we took Sawa’s mum to Bimota for the first time and Shibe came along.

Throughout the post-wedding fun, I got all my family to check out Bimota at least once. Here’s Shoji, the owner.

Also, during the first week after the wedding, Ollie and Feet were largely on their own while I showed my family around, but they seemed to get along great with the ryosei. Here they took part in the weekly movie nights we’ve started this semester, and they even made everyone some New Zealand pavlova!

Oh, in other news, I should mention a couple of things more related to my “official” Doshihsa fellow business. First, I obviously haven’t had any time to study Japanese or practice music, although I did do a great job of getting through my lessons despite no practice (my teacher was very understanding). I did get a tiny bit of time to read, though, and I found this amazing book that is everything I’ve been wanting to learn about but haven’t found. It’s called “The Origins of Music”, and claims to be the foundational volume of the field of “evolutionary musicology”, a sub-field of “biomusicology”, which I’ve realized is exactly what it is that I want to study: music and its relation to humanity from a scientific perspective. Not only is it really interesting and exciting, but although I had feared that I might find that someone had already thought of my idea of creating a musical notation system graphing sound files, no one seems to have thought of it the way I have, although people have said something like “briding the gap between acoustic files and traditional Western notation will be a main challenge that will reveal lots of important data.” That’s what my system does! I’m so excited!
In between all the craziness, I managed to fit a couple of discussion with the ryosei and with Morita-sensei about the future of the Fellowship. It’s looking a little bleak right now. Despite seeming to make some progress arranging meetings with important people at the end of last semester, suddenly they stopped replying to us and even to Morita-sensei. Apparently, discussions have moved up to the top level between universities and, in what seems to be typical Japanese fashion, there isn’t a lot of room for input from the lower levels. The plan now is to keep trying to meet with these people, but at the same time to write down our position, send it to them, and try to schedule my own meetings with the ones making decisions back at Amherst for when I go back there in a month, and just see how we go.
Finally, I had my first class of this new “Machiya Circle” thing. It was a good thing I brought my family along, because I didn’t exactly know what to expect or what to do, and on my own there is NO WAY I could have taught 10 50-odd-year-olds and 10 6-year olds at the same time. I’m going to have to talk to the organizers and get another teacher to teach one group while I teach the other, then combine them for 10-15 minutes at the end to sing a song or something, because it’s just not going to work to try to teach all of them for a whole hour lesson.
Whew, I think that’s it for now. Now that the huge crunch is over, I think I’ll get back on a decently regular updating schedule.
Life is good.